Focusing on others. Don’t seek the appreciation. Appreciate others.People are helping you. Don’t say why I did XXX and complain because I was the one made decision.
After all this.
Then, she’s simply saying that she’s leaving soon because of unfairness and frustration.
I believed my teacher but that same teacher showed me the opposite way of what she taught.
My frustration is because I am the one who have those flaws. Her frustration is because others unfairly treat her.
I am bad. Others are bad. But she’s good. She’s always the victim side. I have flaws to fix.
This is how she’s been thinking of me.
No wonder why anything that is opposing her view / idea was treated as attack. Because with this view in her mind, I cannot tell any advices or opposing her ideas because I am bad and she’s good. Bad person cannot advise to good person.
Finally realized why I feel sometimes inferiority.